Thursday, July 05, 2012

'I've learnt that even when I havepains, I don't have to be one.’

'I've learnt that even when I havepains, I don't have to be one.’

Great & touching thought…Not mine but a thought in which I believe in. I have come across these words while reading a presentation about – May Angelou (A multitalented lady whose work & life are inspirational).

Life is not always fair. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how hard we have tried to achieve our dreams, how sincerely we have given in a friendship or how honestly we have devoted ourselves in a relationship but at the end we end up losing. The truth is that everybody on this earth nurture some or the other pain somewhere.

The point is how we deal with pain. Some people fill their lives with sadness and some become insensitive towards such beautiful emotions like friendship & love. But life is meaningless without friendship, love, trust and above all ‘HOPE’ which gives reason to live.

So doesn’t matter if we could not have achieved our dreams till date, no matter if our friends have left us in middle of crises or our relations could not thrive despite all the efforts...we need to keep on trying atleast to keep the faith alive. If we have endured the pain then atleast we should try not to become the cause of pain instead we should seek ways to add beauty to anyone or anything we come across.

I have always believed that we can leave either of the two things in the universe ‘TEARS’ or SMILE’. It is our choice how we wish to live after we leave…as tears in somebody’s eyes or smile on somebody’s lips.

Although I aim for the later but I really don’t know how much successful I am. However, somewhere I feel 'I've learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.’
 

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